Founder of Saggy Boobs Matter, Chidera Eggerue has revealed that she’s stopped having sex and for her potential suitors they will have to ‘jump through hoops’ if they want to bed her in the future.
The 24-year-old author from Peckham, London, behind Sunday Times Best-Selling guide to being single ‘What A Time To Be Alone’, disclosed that she took a break from sex last year.
Speaking at Stylist Live LUXE, the activist, who founded the ‘Saggy Boobs Matter campaign’, said that she feels ‘good enough to ask for more’ and won’t be jumping into bed with anyone unless they work for it.
She said: ‘I spent this year deciding that I am worthy enough and good enough to ask for more.
‘I will not grant anyone intimate access to me unless they jump through specified hoops I have laid down for them.
‘So anyone who wants intimate access to me will have to sweat for it. They will have to sweat for it. A lot.’
The blogger also told the audience to invest in ‘really good sex toys’. rather than embarking on a relationship.
She said: ‘When you invest in really good sex toys and you take the time to really know your body, then within 10 minutes (or maybe even five) you will get the answers to your problems really easily, without even having to go to their house.‘