It is well known that women tend to rely on words while men rely on actions, so, when men say sweet words to women they believe without doubt even if it ends up to be lie at the end. “Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behaviour to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says, so if you say you don’t love him, but continue to have s3x with him, all your words are in vain; he interprets your actions and draws his own conclusions”.
“This discrepancy between words and behaviour is especially problematic in marriage-bound relationships”. Here are some things to watch out for in your man.
The “help me until I’m ready” guy: This kind of man is insecure and is always talking about his problems but he always want a woman by his side to make him feel secure. “So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him “until he’s ready”. But this kind of man can and will never be ready.
The “dare to discuss marriage” guy: Since he knows women believe in words not actions, this kind of man dares to talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing fully well it is what you want to hear but that’s how far he can go, he won’t take the relationship any further. ” There is never a time frame for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversation suddenly goes in different directions”.
The “let’s have fun first” guy: This kind of guy is just out for the fun of the game, when the fun is out he is moving onto the next person. He is not for any future plans, kids, family, settling down or confiding in any woman, all he wants to talk about is fun and s3x “Whenever you talk marriage, the face changes, the fun ends, and the statement he repeats is, “You are spoiling the moment,” hoping you’ll eventually drop the subject, if you don’t, soon he’ll be out and about for another thrill”.