1. YOU KEEP PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH HIM: You hate playing hard to get and all of those other ridiculous games. But with him, it feels like you have no other choice. You have to hold yourself back from texting him. You have to act casual. Otherwise, he’ll lose interest.
2. YOU OVERTHINK EVERYTHING: When he texts you, you have to read the message three times before you can figure out what to say, because you don’t want to take his words the wrong way. He’s hard to read. You can never tell what he’s thinking.
3. YOU GET OVERLY JEALOUS: You go through his social media and freak out when you see him posing with some other girl. Who is she? You can’t just ask him, because that’s not how your relationship works. So you just come up with worst case scenarios in your head instead.
4. YOU ALWAYS WAIT FOR HIM TO INITIATE CHATS: You hate initiating conversations with him, because you never know which side of him you’re going to get. Will he be flirty? Or will he be standoffish? You let him set the mood.
5. YOU TRY TO GET OVER HIM: If you’re trying to move on, then there’s a part of you that knows how dangerous he is. That nothing is ever going to happen between you. That it’s pointless to keep hoping for him to change.
6. YOU’RE CONFUSED ABOUT HIM: You have no idea where he stands. Does he want to date you? Does he want to sleep with you? Does he want to stay friends? You don’t know if you’ll ever get a straight answer out of him.
7. YOU KEEP REPLAYING ALL YOUR INTERACTIONS IN YOUR HEAD: It’s not for fun. It’s research. You’re trying to decipher everything he’s said and done. Trying to figure out if there’s some hidden message you missed
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