Eriata Ese has advised women against retaliating with infidelity after experiencing betrayal in relationships or marriage.
In a lengthy post shared online, the media personality stated that although many women give their all in relationships and still get hurt, responding by “cheating back” does not bring healing or emotional closure.
According to her, revenge infidelity only worsens emotional pain and prevents genuine recovery from heartbreak and betrayal.
Eriata explained that trying to heal through another unhealthy relationship can leave people emotionally damaged and more likely to repeat toxic relationship patterns in the future.
She also encouraged women to focus on emotional, spiritual, mental, and personal growth instead of revenge, stressing that becoming a stronger version of oneself is the best response to heartbreak.
She wrote:
“Women are being betrayed despite giving their best in marriage, and sadly, broken people are busy advising them to cheat back.
Cheating back will never give you closure. The moment you do it, you return to the same painful feeling of betrayal your husband caused you. Not only that, but you also end up proving to yourself that you do not value yourself enough to heal properly. Instead, you begin expecting someone else to fill that emotional vacuum, but the truth is, they never really do.
It is all temporary, and in the process, you deprive yourself of true healing. You may even continue attracting the same type of men because you never healed enough to recognize a red flag disguised as green.
Your biggest payback is becoming a version of yourself that even he cannot reach. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually upgrading yourself. Know God more deeply than you used to, and take your time to choose someone ordained by God; someone who will truly love, respect, understand, value, and adore you.
IF IT CANNOT BE FIX
LET IT GO
DO NOT CHEAT BACK ❌”
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