Popular relationship coach and founder of David’s Christian Centre, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has found himself at the center of a heated online debate following the launch of his new faith-based matchmaking platform, ‘Mentor To Marry.’ The initiative, designed to connect intentional Christian singles, has raised eyebrows due to its premium subscription tiers, which reach up to N700,000 annually.
The ‘Mentor To Marry’ Initiative and Pricing Structure
According to details released by the cleric, the platform aims to go beyond typical dating apps by offering structured mentorship, compatibility assessments, and guided matchmaking for singles ready for marriage. However, it is the platform’s pricing model—featuring Regular, Premium, and VIP packages ranging from N70,000 to N700,000 per year that has captured the public’s attention.
Public Backlash: Accusations of Commercializing Love
The pricing tiers quickly sparked intense conversations across social media platforms like X (formerly Twitter) and Facebook. Many critics pointed out what they perceived as a contradiction, accusing the relationship coach of commercializing the very institution of marriage he often counsels people on.
Several social media users expressed concern that the high entry barrier automatically excludes many genuine singles who may not have the financial means to access the platform. On X, critics questioned how a system aimed at fostering godly relationships could justify such high fees, suggesting that only wealthy individuals could afford the top-tier VIP package. Similar sentiments echoed on Facebook, with users questioning the decision to monetize matchmaking under the guise of ministry.
Supporters Defend the High-End Matchmaking Model
Despite the wave of criticism, a significant number of Nigerians have defended Pastor Okonkwo’s initiative. Proponents of the platform argue that professional matchmaking, counseling, and vetting processes require substantial resources to run effectively, making the fees justifiable for those who can afford them.
Among those defending the project is former Big Brother Naija reality star Neo, who suggested that paying for professional guidance and counseling might help singles make more logical, long-term relationship decisions. Other supporters emphasized that the program offers valuable pre-marital mentorship and rigorous screening, which distinguishes it from standard dating applications.
As the debate continues to trend online, it highlights a growing conversation in Nigeria regarding the intersection of faith, modern dating, and the financial cost of finding a life partner.