Toke Makinwa, a podcast host known for her controversial opinions, recently shared her thoughts on why cheating is no longer an absolute deal breaker for her in relationships and marriages. In a podcast released on Thursday, Toke Makinwa, who had accused her ex-husband, Maje Ayida, of being a serial cheat, discussed her perspective on infidelity over the years. She stated that as she has grown older, she has realized that women may find it easier to cheat, and the primary reason some may refrain from it is due to self-restraint.
In her words;
“I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
“If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheats, I’m putting him back in the street.
“As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”