Reality TV star TolaniBaj has opened up about her growing disinterest in nightlife, admitting she no longer finds joy in clubbing and is now curious about settling down.
In a heartfelt post, TolaniBaj confessed that she’s been forcing herself to enjoy club outings, even though the excitement is gone.
The influencer revealed that being in loud, crowded places no longer appeals to her, and she’s now contemplating what life would be like in marriage.
While speaking on the shift in her mindset, TolaniBaj joked about wanting to “try marriage” briefly to see if it suits her, though she acknowledged the serious level of commitment it requires.
Her exact words were:
“I gotta start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it, bruh. I keep forcing it. I wanna see if I can experience some kind of excitement. I need excitement in my life. I’m tired of clubbing. I don’t wanna be outside doing what? What am I looking for outside if I have a partner? Like, what the f- be outside to get a shot maybe traveling or something but like i’m done forcing clubbing man i don’t feel like pretending to be having fun in the club anymore like i think it’s time to get married yeah i want to see if i can get married for like two days just to see if i like it that’s a scary commitment y’all like how am i not sure that after one month i will not start saying yeah.”
Her revelation has sparked conversations online, with fans reacting to her candid admission about growth, self-awareness, and shifting priorities.