We all love attention from our man but having a clingy boyfriend can be very frustrating, a boyfriend that is always calling, texting and popping on you at unexpected time.
An overly attached boyfriend can be very difficult to do away with, you might love all the attention from beginning but at the end it will totally drive you nuts because you are in love too and you won’t want to hurt them.
Below are tips on how to deal with an overly attached boyfriend in a subtle way.
The first thing you have to do find out why he is overly attached to you, if he has insecurity issues or trust issues, if he is too less busy or have a bad experience with an ex. When you know the reason why your partner is overly attached, then you can talk to him and help him deal with it.
Chances are he doesn’t know he is overly attached to you, he might feel he is just giving his relationship and girl attention. The best thing to do is to sit him down, talk to him on a light note about things he has being doing that is making him overly attached to you.
If he calls and texts you too much, let him understand you might be busy at certain time and won’t be able to attend too his calls and text so it won’t be like you are ignoring him when ever he wants to talk.
Let him know and also show him your commitment to him anytime you are with him, avoid any unnecessary calls or distractions when you are together so you will help him build his self confidence and reduce his insecurities if he have any.
“Be clear about what you like, most men think women like it if they are clingy or spend more time with you”. If you are not the type that does not like clingy guys, let him know from start so he can respect your privacy.