1. Give your man space. Do not expect to spend all day, every day with him. While you may spend a lot of time together in the beginning, there usually comes a time when the relationship cools off. Don’t fret. This doesn’t mean that he has lost interest. Try to plan time together once a week and let him go out with his friends as much as he wants.
2. Do not call a million times every day. Any man who feels smothered is going to jump ship quick. Once a day is fine, maybe to say good night.
3. Don’t start telling him “I love you” early in the relationship. Even if you are feeling that way, it may scare him off. Don’t try to force him to say it either.
4. Don’t feel suspicious if your man doesn’t open up right away. Men are more likely to talk about what they’ve done instead of how they feel. Just because he isn’t ready to tell you his whole life story doesn’t mean he’s hiding something.
5. Don’t expect to move in together a week after you start dating. Men are generally very slow movers. Give yourself at least a year.
Let your man know he’s appreciated. Let him know how much you enjoy spending time with him. Contrary to popular belief, men are not mind readers. Don’t expect them to know what you are thinking all the time.
6. Trust him. A relationship is all about trust, so if he hasn’t ever cheated on you before then don’t keep thinking he will now because chances are that if you do then he’ll think “well she already thinks I’m doing it now so i might as well do it anyway.” Think logically rather than be guided solely by your emotions.
7. Feed his ego. Men are raised by society to have big egos, since they are expected to do everything for the people around them, so feed their ego. Tell your guy that he’s the man and that you don’t know where you’d be without him. Tell him how amazing he is. Tell him he’s in control
8. Make him feel good. Guys do everything to please their girl, so it’s fair enough that you do the same for him. If he doesn’t really do anything for you then you can be the one to start, because when you do this he’ll feel like “OMG, this girl is amazing. She did this nice thing for me so i think its only fair I should do this for her.”
OTHER TIPS
1. Remember what you put in is what you’re gonna get out so treat him how you want to be treated.
2. Guys are just as sensitive as girls, even if they don’t show it it’s inevitable that they are feeling it. If he’s upset treat him as if you would treat a crying girl friend. Be sensitive yet intimate. Show your feminine side.
3. Don’t be a stalker and don’t smother him, let him be the man that you know he is.