Women love to compare their men to other men inwardly, making a list of ranks where they fall into. However, men also do same. Blessing Ukemena writes with report from madamnoire.com.
You may think you’re tricky, or one of a kind, or that men have never met a woman like you before, but news flash: just as we put every guy’we meet into some categories, they do the same to us. It doesn’t mean they don’t recognise the qualities that are uniquely you; it just means that at some point or another, other women have done some of the things that you are doing and they place in a certain categories in their minds. Some of these categories include:
The Gold-Digger
This happens almost whenever a lady asks her man for some cash or expensive gift. Men get a kick out of dating at least one or two Gold-diggers—it says something about their status that women are even out to dig for their gold. And there is something satisfying about it being so easy to make a woman happy: just buy her stuff. No emotional complications involved.
The Freak
Typically, men won’t stay with the ultra-sexual chick forever—the one who wants to bang in the back seat of taxi cabs, who grabs their guy’s junk under the table at dinner with his mum, and who owns a few illegal adult toys.They eventually want to settle down with a lady with some sense of decency, but as a sort of “right of passage”, they will all date one.
Independent Woman
Just as guys like to feel like a sugar daddy sometimes, they also like to feel like a sugar baby. Men don’t openly accept a woman paying for things as often as the reverse happens—in fact, studies find that most men feel more comfortable earning more than their partners—but every man enjoys dating a woman who can and will pay for expensive things.
The Flashy Babe
They’re not all superficial and in the end, most men want to marry someone whose personality they love. At that point, mediocre looks are okay. But, we’re only on this planet once. And every man want to experience being with a fine woman, at least for a little. Compatibility can go out the window for a few months.
The Tomboy
Men will call you this simply if you like to get active a lot. If your relationship consists of a lot of hiking, surfing, gym time and general time outdoors,exercising, a man will refer you as a Tomboy. At heart, all men are little boys who want to play all day and who have a lot of energy to release. They like having a woman who can keep up.
The Surrogate Mommy
Deep down, even if they don’t admit it, every guy is looking for his mom. Men can’t resist a woman who scratches their heads when they’re feeling stressed, or cooks for them, or speaks to them in a sweet, nurturing voice or who in general lets them act like big babies.
The Toy
This is a more innocent form of a booty call. Yes, if you’re the toy, a guy will want to have sex with you, but he’ll also call you up when he feels like whining about life, or when he wants someone to cuddle, or when he wants someone to keep him company grocery shopping. Some guys want all the perks of having a girlfriend, without having to put in any effort or make any emotional investment.
The Good Girl
Men love nothing more than to corrupt a good girl. They love having a girl around whose sensibilities are so fragile, she covers her mouth in shock every time he makes a crude joke—that lets him know it was really crude, and he feels like a bad boy. But good girls also bring out the inherently protective side in men: they love taking care of a sweet, unsuspecting female who doesn’t speak up for herself.
Girlfriend Material
Girlfriend material is a little bit of everything: she’ll be active like a Tomboy, she’ll be a good girl, she’ll be an occasional freak in the bedroom, she’ll be hot like a hot flashy babe and she’ll be successful like an independent woman. But what makes her girlfriend material and not wife material is that, quite frankly, the guy just isn’t deeply in love with her. He thoroughly enjoys her company, and she fills almost all of his needs, but that “it” factor isn’t there. Unfortunately, men will gladly keep girlfriend material around for years, knowing full well she’ll never be wife material to them.
Wife Material
Wife material is pretty easy to understand after you’ve read about girlfriend material. But, wife material can usually get away with not filling all the other categories. Maybe,she isn’t as active as her man would like, or maybe she isn’t that adventurous in the bedroom. The reason she gets away with falling short in an area or two is because the “it” factor is there—he just can’t see himself without her.