Nigerian music star Simisola Kosoko, popularly known as Simi, has sparked a heated online debate by calling out men who complain about a lack of attention from their wives immediately after childbirth.
The Reality of Recovery
In a viral video, the singer argued that the postpartum period should be entirely dedicated to the mother’s recovery and the baby’s well-being, rather than the father’s ego. She highlighted the immense physical and emotional toll women endure, citing painful medical procedures, body changes, swelling, and sleepless nights, and insisted that these sacrifices far outweigh any feelings of neglect a husband might experience.
Misplaced Priorities
Simi expressed frustration with the tendency for society and sometimes the men themselves to shift the focus to “how the husband is coping.” She contended that asking about the father’s feelings diverts necessary empathy away from the person who just navigated the health risks and trauma of delivery.
Public Verdict
Her blunt take has resonated widely on social media, with many fans agreeing that during such a demanding life chapter, a partner’s role should be one of support, not a demand for attention.
Watch Simi’s video below: