“If we all want, to be honest, there are times when we find ourselves attracted to people of the same s3x, sometimes a bit confusing, deep inside we hope that it is just a personality thing and that two people have a special chemistry that elicits the same attractive feelings without it meaning anything about our s3xuality or s3xual orientation”.
If this happens almost all the time, then you need to stop and ask yourself, am I a lesbian? The reasons why people fall in love with people of the same s3x is still a mystery to even the most prestigious scientists, so if you are still having difficulties knowing if you are a lesbian or not, here are some signs to help you out even though some people might beg to differ.
Your friends tend to be a little more affectionate than the average friends even though some girls are just more touchy-feely than others, they are the ones who flirt with both s3xes. “It is okay to have some flirty friends, but if all you have are the kind that provides you physical intimacy, then you might want to think about what attracts you to them”.
“You have a tendency to be very possessive of any girl you are attracted to, we all have a problem when our bestie starts hanging out with the pyramid chick who ruins the groove but, if you find yourself so possessive that you are positively pissed about their relationship and will do anything to end it, then you should probably check yourself and your true feelings for your “friend.”
You fantasize about women, it is not fantasizing about women that make you a lesbian it make you human but when you start getting aroused by a fellow woman and when you think about another woman s3xually then check yourself well.
You don’t find guys or their male parts, enticing, even though men parts aren’t beautiful or s3xually but if you don’t find anything s3xy about men except in women then there is a red flag.
“You get tingly when you have a girl crush and want it to go farther, having a girl crush is normal, wanting to continually act on it, reach over and grab them, or kiss their lips, is not the actions of someone who doesn’t have lesbian tendencies”.
You have a part on a woman that makes your heart go gaga, if you find out that you are butt, a boob, or foot lover or any special body part attached to the female gender attracts you, then you don’t need to ask any question again. “Finding the female body attractive is TOTALLY normal, we are sexy, but if you are fixated on something s3xual about a woman, then it may be a bigger sign”.
“You know in your heart that something isn’t right, if you are reading this now and asking the question, am I a lesbian, then that might be the biggest sign, constantly searching for answers outside of your own feelings sometimes means that you aren’t ready to accept what you already know in your heart”.