Men sometimes find themselves in need of a few pointers on how to please a woman. It isn’t that you are failing in the bedroom, but have a burning desire to rock her world. Below are a few things men should keep in mind.
1. All of us are different. What may bring intense, toe-curling pleasure to one woman might leave another feeling uncomfortable. You must know your woman and the things she likes. By paying attention during your lovemaking you will see subtle signs as to what she enjoys and what she doesn’t. Some women are more vocal and willing to tell you what they want, but others are not so outspoken. Just remember that while a certain move might have made you a super star with your ex, that is no guarantee your current mate will feel the same way.
2. We are not an appointment in your book. You should not have a standing date to meet for a sexual romp in the bedroom every other Tuesday at 9pm. Be more spontaneous. Why not 6pm? Or on a Friday? And why not get amorous in the living room? Do SOMETHING different to keep monotony from setting in. Penciling in time with your partner is not only boring, it is offensive. You are treating them as if they are just another chore on your to-do list. Spontaneity can be extremely arousing on it’s own. If she looks especially sexy as you prepare to walk out the door for a fundraiser, why not delay your departure a bit?
3. Explore, explore, explore! Let your fingers and lips wander. Most women enjoy the touch of a man’s hands, tongue or lips on her body. Go slow at first! Linger in different areas and observe her reaction. If she is obviously getting pleasure from it you will likely want to remember that spot for next time. Try out various amounts of pressure and speed of movement until you have pinpointed what she enjoys most.
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5. Don’t just “go for the gold”. We have other sexual parts beside the one located in our nether regions. You certainly noticed them when we met! So why neglect them now? Female breasts are usually extremely sensitive. The kneading bread motion is not the way to go here, gentlemen. You should also be careful with the pinching.
6. Time limits. You have all heard that women want a long drawn out session of love making. In general, that is true. But never underestimate the pleasing power of a “quickie”. Sometimes the frantic rush can heighten pleasure to a whole other level.
There are numerous ways that you may be able to perk things up in the bedroom. All it takes is a willing student and some observation.
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